Love is a double-edged sword – 情是双刃剑 – English

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One of my friends who has a good wife at home was recently involved in an affair with a cyber friend, however it ends quite nasty. The wife wouldn’t accept another woman, on the other hand, the cyber friend refused to be a lover. At the end, the friend confessed to both women and admitted that he still loved them.So both women knew about each other and were extremely jealous. He came to me for a solution. I said,the only way out is a polygamous setup. Polyamory is a time-tested relationship structure, especially for jealous people. My friend said: maybe you could think through that polyamorous relationship in theory, but it’s not going to work in real life. I said: who says it’s only theoretical? It’s becoming a new way of having relationships, many people have already eagerly chosen this setup: one man, two women; one woman, two men; two men, two women; any combination that makes you all happy. Who said it’s not real?

尽管多人关系可以这样解决,这种事发生在身边,还是令我唏嘘慨叹。Love is the most beautiful thing in the world, but it is a double-edged sword, it brings people happiness, and it gives them trouble.

When people fall passionately in love, the sky is blue and flowers are red, and a sense of good fortune and happiness spontaneously arises, like a bird flying high, or a fish swimming free – who would not say that love is beautiful? However, when we encounter actual love, or you get married, or he has a lover, or you love him but he does not love you, or he loves you but you do not love him, although both parties are in love, they are separated by distant moment, with no chance to meet. It is impossible to rid oneself of the inexhaustible distress. Dark clouds cover the sky all day and the face is awash with tears. Who is able to break free of love’s distress?

We can only pray to God, let lovers marry, and let the flower of love bloom, undefeated.



Source : Sina blog

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-<p>One of my friends who has a good wife at home was recently involved in an affair with a cyber friend, however it ends quite nasty. The wife wouldn’t accept another woman, on the other hand, the cyber friend refused to be a lover. At the end, the friend confessed to both women and admitted that he still loved them.So both women knew about each other and were extremely jealous. He came to me for a solution. I said,the only way out is a polygamous setup. Polyamory is a time-tested relationship structure, especially for jealous people. My friend said: maybe you could think through that polyamorous relationship in theory, but it's not going to work in real life. I said: who says it's only theoretical? It's becoming a new way of having relationships, many people have already eagerly chosen this setup: one man, two women; one woman, two men; two men, two women; any combination that makes you all happy. Who said it's not real?</p> +<p>One of my friends who has a good wife at home was recently involved in an affair with a cyber friend, and it ended nastily. On one hand the wife wouldn’t accept another woman, and on the other hand, the cyber friend refused to be a lover. In the end, the friend confessed to both women and admitted that he still loved them both. So each women knew about the other and were extremely jealous. This friend came to me for a solution. I said said to him, "The only way is a polygamous relationship. Polyamory is a time-tested relationship structure, and it cures people's jealousy." My friend replied, "Maybe a polyamorous relationship can work in theory, but its not going to work in real life." I said, "Who says its only theoretical? Its becoming a new way of having relationships, many people have already gotten on board: one man, two women; one woman, two men; two men, two women; any combination that makes you all happy. Who said its not real?"</p>
-<p>尽管多人关系可以这样解决,这种事发生在身边,还是令我唏嘘慨叹。Love is the most beautiful thing in the world, but it is a double-edged sword, it brings people happiness, and it gives them trouble. </p> 
 +<p>Although many people's relationships can be solved in this way, when it happens close to home, it causes one to sigh with regret. Love is the most beautiful thing in the world, but it is a double-edged sword, it brings people happiness, and it gives them trouble. </p>
<p>When people fall passionately in love, the sky is blue and flowers are red, and a sense of good fortune and happiness spontaneously arises, like a bird flying high, or a fish swimming free - who would not say that love is beautiful? However, when we encounter actual love, or you get married, or he has a lover, or you love him but he does not love you, or he loves you but you do not love him, although both parties are in love, they are separated by distant moment, with no chance to meet. It is impossible to rid oneself of the inexhaustible distress. Dark clouds cover the sky all day and the face is awash with tears. Who is able to break free of love's distress?</p> <p>When people fall passionately in love, the sky is blue and flowers are red, and a sense of good fortune and happiness spontaneously arises, like a bird flying high, or a fish swimming free - who would not say that love is beautiful? However, when we encounter actual love, or you get married, or he has a lover, or you love him but he does not love you, or he loves you but you do not love him, although both parties are in love, they are separated by distant moment, with no chance to meet. It is impossible to rid oneself of the inexhaustible distress. Dark clouds cover the sky all day and the face is awash with tears. Who is able to break free of love's distress?</p>
<p>We can only pray to God, let lovers marry, and let the flower of love bloom, undefeated.</p> <p>We can only pray to God, let lovers marry, and let the flower of love bloom, undefeated.</p>

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